By post:

1. Benjamin's birthday!!
2. Happy 2008
3. Thank you Jesus!!
4. Maria!!!!
5. Year end service
6. Movies...
7. Highway to heaven??
8. Awesome Night!!
9. KL trips
10. Why people don't believe in Jesus (part 3)

By month:

1. October 2007
2. November 2007
3. December 2007
4. January 2008
5. February 2008
6. March 2008
7. April 2008
8. May 2008
9. June 2008
10. July 2008
11. August 2008
12. September 2008
13. October 2008
14. November 2008
15. December 2008
16. January 2009
17. February 2009
18. March 2009
19. April 2009
20. May 2009
21. June 2009
22. July 2009
23. August 2009
24. September 2009
25. October 2009
26. November 2009
27. December 2009
28. January 2010
29. February 2010
30. March 2010
31. April 2010
32. May 2010
33. June 2010
34. July 2010

Focus is the key to success. A double minded person tend to be unstable. Not only in our studies or businesses but also in term of relationship. I must know who I want and the level of commitment I need to commit in a relationship.

As everybody know, I am from the Children church. Every sunday see all the happy parents and their beloved kids, the feeling of envy always conquering my emotion. How I wish I can be a parents. But before I can be a parents, I need to pass a stage call courting. Right now I have no girlfriend so it is still long way to go. Perhaps God know that I cant have the commitment it takes yo maintain a relationship.



THE 4 LEVELS OF COMMITMENT

1. Commitment to be emotionally monogamous.

Commitment Level 1 Agreement

You and your partner agree that this is your one and only intimate relationship, and commit to putting your time and energy into sharing with one another and no one else!



2. Commitment to work toward a partnership.

Commitment Level 2 Agreement

· You and your partner agree that your relationship has the potential to be a lasting partnership.
· You and your partner agree to work together, honestly communicating feelings, looking at your own blocks to intimacy, and learning from one another in order to create that potential lasting partnership. (Recommended at least 6 months!)

3. Commitment to get ready for marriage.

Commitment Level 3 Agreement

· You and your partner agree that you want to get ready for a life together.
· You and your partner agree to familiarize your commitment by either:
- Becoming engaged to be married,
- Deciding on your wedding date, or
- Booking a HDB apartment.
· You and your partner agree to continue working on yourselves and the relationship to eliminate any remaining doubts or obstacles to a successful lifetime commitment.

4. Commitment to spend the rest of your lives together.

Commitment Level 4 Agreement

· You and your partner agree that you want to spend the rest of your lives together.
· You and your partner agree that as lifelong mates, you will cherish, protect and nurture this special God-given relationship that you have.
· You and your partner get married.


So you see going into courting is more than I love you and you love me. Is not just trying to show off to friends or having fun in expense of each other companion or even body. Is a life long commitment!!

I been single for 20 years liao! LOL..... funny hor?? Most of the time I am having the urge for a merge. Haha. Almost all the time, I am the one who have the willful thinking. Just because a person treat me good or seem to be close to me, I will have this thought of the person liking me. Hai... most of the time is I think too much. The recently one also.... rebuked by her. So God when?? 2008? pls......

How to know if you like a person? (THE 60-SECOND COMPATIBILITY TEST)

1) Would I want to have a child with this person
2) Would I want to have a child just like this person
3) Do I want to become more like this person
4) Would I willing to spend my life with this person even she/He refuse to change

Yes to all – Compatible
No to either one – Most likely not meant for one another

Try the test, is quite true!