I was watching Channel 8 TV drama last night at 7pm. Inside there is 1 male character who was a movie director, he ask a female actress to be his girlfriend. So he give flower, drive her around and say some words to touch the woman's heart. But he succeeded. Then I wonder to myself, hmm seem familiar... cuz I have done almost identical ways. Anyway like what I mention b4, it is the "Hollywood" ways of a lasting relationship. I want the "God" ways of a lasting relationship which mean totally opposite way of approaching a relationship. In "Hollywood" ways, people tend to look at the attributes of physical then emotional then psychological then social lastly is spiritual. It is a good prescription that generally people use and have successful relationship. But I am a christian so I should use the prescription of God. In "God" way, I should be looking at the attributes of spiritual then social then psychological then emotional and lastly physical. I think my current situation should be in the prescription of God.Many of time I convince myself to accept the reality and move forward behave normally like a friend. My buddy also ask me why must I behave the way I behave. I told him Yi Yan Nan Jing.
I was flipping through the sermon of 2004 and 2005. It was many years back. I still kept it in good condition. Then I came across the sermon title 'Thinking with Excellence' It seem so familiar to me. Then I remember that Ps Tan preach this before last year. But what he never mention was the 7 characteristics of an Excellent person.
- Physically healthy
- Well groomed
- God's wisdom
- Knowledge
- Initiative
- Ability to serve
- Good communication skills.
Haha anyway I join my friend club - Bachelor club. He also about the same as me. Her ex's mother wants her daughter to wait for my friend to finish his NS before consider any relationship again. Gone case le la. Let use common sense. If a guy with a settle down career chasing her, will a woman give that guy a chance if she think things might just work out? Rather than waiting a poor and miserable guy serving the Army. In this world it is just so realistic. Face it REYES!!
